Clinically reviewed by Katie Dobinson and Samantha Tang.
Change is a natural part of life, but that doesn’t mean it’s always easy. Whether it’s something we choose or something unexpected, navigating change can bring up feelings of uncertainty and discomfort. It’s normal to feel unsure about where to begin or how to adjust.
Stepping into new ways of thinking or doing things can be challenging, but it’s often through these moments of change that we discover our resilience and capacity to grow.
Change is often where the magic happens
So, how can you become more comfortable with change?
It can help to start with a simple self-check-in:
How am I living my life now, and how might this differ from how I want it to be?
What would I like to be able to do differently?
Am I finding the time to do things that are important to me?
If there’s a mismatch between the life you want and the one you’re living it can be it could be worth considering the how the benefits of change often outweigh the discomfort and uncertainty of the process. You can ask yourself questions like, how might making certain changes improve how I feel? or how can this change bring me closer to what is important to me?
Even just the thought of change can feel daunting
If the idea of change becomes overwhelming, it can be helpful to draw to mind past experiences of when you have made a change that had positive effects on your life. For example, maybe there was a time when changing jobs led you to feeling more satisfied, or a time when trying a new activity allowed you to discover a new interest.
If you are living a life that is mostly in line with how you want it to be, this does not mean that there aren’t things you can implement to further improve your wellbeing. We can all benefit from a self-check-in and some helpful change!
It’s important to remember that the changes that you make do not need to be huge. Even small changes – like going to bed 15 minutes earlier, texting friends more regularly or going on a walk – can have a big impact on how you feel. These small changes can also help to build momentum to making bigger changes in your life.
How to embrace change
First of all it’s important to acknowledge that change can be hard.
It can help to start small and build yourself up to bigger changes. Here are some suggestions...
Express yourself through a new hobby…. you never know where this may take you.
Talk to a friend or family member about how you’re going.
Write a list of ideas about things you would like to change and brainstorm the pros and cons of each.
Break down big changes into smaller, more achievable changes.
Have courage but also be patient with yourself – change doesn’t happen overnight.
Keep an open mind, remember it’s okay to make mistakes – this is how we learn new things.
What’s one small, positive change you can make to improve your mental health wellbeing?
The online mental health and wellbeing programs at THIS WAY UP can help you learn to change unhelpful thoughts and behaviours that may be holding you back from the life you want to be living. So why wait any longer? You can start to check-in with yourself using our online Wellbeing Test. This tool identifies which of our programs may benefit you based on how you’re feeling.
Use our Wellbeing Test and discover the magic that can happen when you get outside of your comfort zone!